In my recent posts, I looked more closely at my mid-2023 goal #2: focus on long-term goals, like retirement and investments.
As a part of that, I reviewed the state of my long term funds, identified several decisions I need to make before I can move forward, and listed the topics and questions I need to research in order to make those decisions. As I do not have enough time to do the proper research right now due to my PhD time commitments, I have instead established goal funds ($4K Dividend Fund, $1.6K House Down Payment Fund) so that at least the money I have leftover every month has a specific home and purpose. I've found that assigning homes for my money motivates me to save more.
I found this process really thought-provoking, as detailed below.
Saving is a Mind Game: Actionable steps and Doable mini-goals that feel like progress will help me win that game.
The psychology of money is so interesting! It's amazing how it feels so incredibly overwhelming to think about saving up for huge goals like $1M, e.g. to receive enough in dividends to live off of. Even $160K for a house down payment is too much for my brain. Those amounts just turn me off immediately, even though I am a keen saver and have previously saved $50K for my house down payment in one (slow) chunk. A part of me just wants to quit when I see those numbers... Why even bother? It's going to be so difficult to meet that goal; I'd just rather not even try since I think I'm going to fail.
I think this is why I've sort of held off on seriously saving for my long-term goals for the past few years - well, that and the fact that my income is so low. I am making ends meet, there hasn't been a ton leftover for saving like there has been in the past.
But, that said, saving $4K, $5K, even $10K? I've proven to myself that I can do that somewhat painlessly, even on a low income. And I've seen how it grows over time - saving begets saving. The magic of compounding, of course.
All that's truly left of my goals are long-term, and my long-term goals
are BIG. Retirement: $1M+, house down payment: $160K, dividend income:
$800K, etc. So I recognized the need for a strategy for my money mindset around these BIG savings goals. I really think this $10/mo or 1% method may be the
ticket for me going forward. $10 per month in dividend income and 1% progress is, by all accounts, very very very small, but still feels very concrete to me; it feels like progress. Most importantly, it feels doable. And that is probably the most important bit of all, as it keeps me from just giving up and putting saving large amounts in the too-hard basket. With this mindset, I can keep moving forward, inch by inch.
Well, who knew? It turns out that all of the advice around productivity I have been reading to help me with my ADHD and PhD is also applicable to financial goals: if you break the savings goals down into small chunks, before you know it you've reached all of your short- and medium-term goals and can now concentrate on your huge long-term goals, again in small chunks. Incredible. 😀
The Reality of Home Ownership For Me
Another somewhat surprising thought dawned on me as I was doing this planning. To be frank, I am now sure that I do not have the desire to own a house. Definitely not in NZ, but not even in the US! I've been saving/thinking about saving for a house down payment for so long that I
actually forgot that I never had really wanted to own a house prior to
moving to NZ. Once I moved here and realized I could never have a dog without owning a house, that became the goal. (Most landlords will NOT rent to someone with a dog/pets, and it is unfair to a pup to not have a stable situation where I can provide a long-term commitment to keeping the dog. Especially "big dogs" like Labrador retrievers, which is the type of pup I would like to get.)
Ramit Sethi's breakdown of the actual costs and responsibilities vs the rewards has opened my eyes a bit more lately. The maintenance, the worry, the interest rates, the huge weight of debt, the very low quality for very high prices in NZ, the weird 1 year mortgages they have in NZ. It all just turns me off, to be completely honest with you.
In NZ, I just plain will never qualify for a mortgage by myself. My income is so low that the calculators don't even work for me! And I don't ever plan on working full-time in NZ, so my income is likely to never be high enough as a single person. I'd have to have the full amount of the house in hand and pay cash for the entire thing. Or, go in on a property with a friend. Or, find a partner with stable, high income (the hard part there would actually be just finding a partner!). Or, inherit a huge amount of money.
However, I know owning a home is likely to be the only way to be able to have a dog in NZ, so still I persist.
Despite all of my misgivings about home ownership and the impossible nature of it, esp in NZ, I fully expect my House Down Payment Fund saving to take place in
drips and drabs over the next 15-20 years of my life, just in case. I sadly don't
think that pipe dream will ever come to fruition, at least, not if I live in NZ. But one has to have hopes and dreams, and the possibility of getting a pup is what drives me forward with my savings for this goal.
A New Stage of Life and Mindset Shift